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Back in the olden days, Malay girls or young ladies in Malaysia are seldom seen clad in blouse & a pair of slacks. They were more often seen wearing baju kurung or baju kedah and kain batik. That simply symbolizes their decency.
Back in the olden days, Malay girls or young ladies in Malaysia are seldom seen clad in blouse & a pair of slacks. They were more often seen wearing baju kurung or baju kedah and kain batik. That simply symbolizes their decency.
In this new trending world, modesty & decency is abruptly leaving oneself. From a fully covered attire, people tend to migrate to a cloth-less lifestyle. What causes this phenomena to occur? Why is this way more loved by current society? That is briefly an example to start with.
We can clearly see that this "nature" is not only engulfing the fashion-sense of our people, but it has also affected the behaviour, spoken-language & to anyone's disbelief, the gestures! These unpredicted ways have given a deep impact towards the environment of forgive & forget. With the heavy attitude, harsh words & improper sign-languages can cause a person to be wrecked at heart.
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SITUATION : At a mamak restaurant, best friends meet as usual.
Ms.X: Hey friend!!
Ms.Y: Hello!! How are you today?
Ms.X: You are asking me?? I can't even sleep with you bugging me late yesterday night!! No brains??
Ms.Y: ~ ~ ~ +_=" (deep inside: why am i being talked to in this manner in public??)
--> Ms.X & Ms.Y could be the best of friends in this whole wide world. But Ms.X might not realize that Ms.Y is probably already having some problems of her own before the conversation. Ms.X's harsh words towards Ms.Y had made Ms.Y felt her best friend that she rely on most no longer loves her as a friend. :'(
If you were to be in Ms.Y's situation, which option is yours?
A. Forgive but will remember what she said for as long as you live.
B. Just forget what she said, but never forgive her doings.
C. Revenge is sweet!!
D. Forgive her and forget what had happened and move on.
Choice A
Normally, people have the tendency to forgive but not to forget. They forgive verbally but they bury the treasure of anger within their heart. They will remember every single word that is uttered towards them and every gesture that is portrayed against them. They will keep deep within their heart, long enough before it becomes a volcanic eruption. At a point when an argument begins, they will start to recall all the negative moments that have occurred all this while. They will start blaming each other for as little as childish stuffs.
Choice B
People with this choice will have the similar attitude as of choice A, but this time around they will try to erase the scene from their mind and at the same time they make an oath not to forgive the person as long as they live. The grudge within oneself can one day turn bad and stale the whole friendship / relationship into one big puddle of mud!
Choice C
As the saying goes "What you give you get back!", people with this choice will somehow seek opportunity to revenge on the other person that had embarrassed them publicly. The slightest mistake of the opponent will create the path for them to be nailed down. They will feel very satisfied with their revenge.
Choice D
Easy-going people often make this option their choice. They have good intention in the friendship / relationship. They would not want a simple mistake to become a huge obstacle in their communication in future. Therefore they'll go with this choice bearing in mind that "Every human makes mistake!". This kind of attitude is not only loved by people around them but also The Creator.
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Towards the end-of-the-world era, we as human have to start thinking about real life!! If we are prone towards negative doings, we shall stop and start repenting, as this is now the perfect time to wash away all our sins that have mounted up since puberty. Apart from Prophet Muhammad S.A.W., no one in this world is clean from sins, in other words maksum. So we better gear-up ourselves and start nearing the mosque or musollah. Our steps should also more often meet ways to attend religious talks or discussions.
We no longer have time for pleasure and pointless leisure. These activities can lead us to do lagha things. Therefore, no matter how pious you are or how devilish you are, start cleansing yourself now. No matter what people do to you, revenge is never sweet as the larger revenge shall be in akhirat (after-life). Just forgive the person who hurt you, regardless of how hurtful you felt, for the benefits will take place later.
The more you have the grudge feeling, not having the slightest intention to forgive others, the more you will actually suffer!! Because you will keep thinking of it over and over again regardless of time. It will cause an emotional breakdown and you will just simply collapse then ...
Therefore it's your choice to FORGIVE or FORGET or FORGIVE & FORGET~
MAFIA: We live our life only once. Make useful things out of it. Never let the bad influence come into your way to live a good life. Be happy and smile always. Open your heart to forgive others because Allah will forgive you. Remember: "Every human makes mistakes! A matter of big or small that matters~".
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SITUATION : At a mamak restaurant, best friends meet as usual.
Ms.X: Hey friend!!
Ms.Y: Hello!! How are you today?
Ms.X: You are asking me?? I can't even sleep with you bugging me late yesterday night!! No brains??
Ms.Y: ~ ~ ~ +_=" (deep inside: why am i being talked to in this manner in public??)
--> Ms.X & Ms.Y could be the best of friends in this whole wide world. But Ms.X might not realize that Ms.Y is probably already having some problems of her own before the conversation. Ms.X's harsh words towards Ms.Y had made Ms.Y felt her best friend that she rely on most no longer loves her as a friend. :'(
If you were to be in Ms.Y's situation, which option is yours?
A. Forgive but will remember what she said for as long as you live.
B. Just forget what she said, but never forgive her doings.
C. Revenge is sweet!!
D. Forgive her and forget what had happened and move on.
Choice A
Normally, people have the tendency to forgive but not to forget. They forgive verbally but they bury the treasure of anger within their heart. They will remember every single word that is uttered towards them and every gesture that is portrayed against them. They will keep deep within their heart, long enough before it becomes a volcanic eruption. At a point when an argument begins, they will start to recall all the negative moments that have occurred all this while. They will start blaming each other for as little as childish stuffs.
Choice B
People with this choice will have the similar attitude as of choice A, but this time around they will try to erase the scene from their mind and at the same time they make an oath not to forgive the person as long as they live. The grudge within oneself can one day turn bad and stale the whole friendship / relationship into one big puddle of mud!
Choice C
As the saying goes "What you give you get back!", people with this choice will somehow seek opportunity to revenge on the other person that had embarrassed them publicly. The slightest mistake of the opponent will create the path for them to be nailed down. They will feel very satisfied with their revenge.
Choice D
Easy-going people often make this option their choice. They have good intention in the friendship / relationship. They would not want a simple mistake to become a huge obstacle in their communication in future. Therefore they'll go with this choice bearing in mind that "Every human makes mistake!". This kind of attitude is not only loved by people around them but also The Creator.
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Towards the end-of-the-world era, we as human have to start thinking about real life!! If we are prone towards negative doings, we shall stop and start repenting, as this is now the perfect time to wash away all our sins that have mounted up since puberty. Apart from Prophet Muhammad S.A.W., no one in this world is clean from sins, in other words maksum. So we better gear-up ourselves and start nearing the mosque or musollah. Our steps should also more often meet ways to attend religious talks or discussions.
We no longer have time for pleasure and pointless leisure. These activities can lead us to do lagha things. Therefore, no matter how pious you are or how devilish you are, start cleansing yourself now. No matter what people do to you, revenge is never sweet as the larger revenge shall be in akhirat (after-life). Just forgive the person who hurt you, regardless of how hurtful you felt, for the benefits will take place later.
The more you have the grudge feeling, not having the slightest intention to forgive others, the more you will actually suffer!! Because you will keep thinking of it over and over again regardless of time. It will cause an emotional breakdown and you will just simply collapse then ...
Therefore it's your choice to FORGIVE or FORGET or FORGIVE & FORGET~
~ forgive & forget ~
Saat makan, jika makanan kurang, dia akan memberikan makanan itu kepada anak-anaknya dan berkata :
“ Along dengan angah makan lah yer. Ibu tak lapar kenyang.” Padahal waktu itu, dia berasa sangat lapar setelah memerah keringat tuanya untuk mencari rezeki bagi menampung anak-anaknya.
Waktu makan, dia selalu mengasingkan ikan dan daging untuk anaknya dan berkata : “Ibu tak suka daging, makanlah yer.” Padahal daging merupakan kegemarannya, namun dia terpaksa mengalah untuk memberikan makanan yang terbaik untuk anak-anaknya.
Tengah malam ketika dia sedang menjaga anaknya yang sakit, dia berkata : “Rehatlah nak, ibu temankan, ibu masih belum mengantuk.” Waktu itu,matanya hampir terpejam namun digagahkan jua.
Setelah anak sudah tamat persekolahan, bekerja dan mengirimkan wang untuk ibu, dia berkata : “Simpanlah untuk keperluanmu nak, ibu dah ada simpanan.” Padahal duit simpanannya sekadar cukup untuk dia menunaikan haji.
Apabila anaknya sudah Berjaya, hidup senang dan menjemput ibunya tinggal bersamanya di rumah yang besar, lantas ibu berkata : “Rumah tua kita sangat selesa, ibu tak biasa tinggal di rumah yang besar.” Si ibu itu tidak mahu menyusahkan anaknya dan menantunya yang terpaksa menanggungnya yang sudah tua itu.
Dan pembohongan paling terbesar daripada ibu ialah ketika menjelang tua, ibu sakit kuat dan anak-anaknya menangis, tetapi ibu masih boleh tersenyum dan berkata : “ Jangan menangis, ibu tak apa apa.” Ini adalah pembohongan yang terakhir daripada ibu.
Kadang kala kita sebagai anak terlepas pandang dengan apa yang telah dilakukan oleh seorang insan yang bernama ibu. Hargailah ibu sebelum kita kehilangannya.
Assalamualaikum & Greetings. :)
Well~ Basically as everyone know, banana is a type of fruit that can either be eaten raw or deep-fried [nope nope.. not healthy!!] or even cooked with coconut milk [neither will this one be~]. Most importantly, bananas are full of potassium, which is essential for maintaining proper fluid balance, nerve impulse function, muscle function & cardiac (heart muscle) function.
However, do you know that this tiny fruit [well, I consider it tiny~ in comparison to watermelon :)] has HUGE benefits?? Not only the fruit itself.. But the skin [peel] is very useful too~
Lets scroll down to read more.. Along with the pictorial 'effects'.. Enjoy!!
p/s: I'm sorry that I am not able to find the original source of these wonderful pictures as I downloaded them right from my e-mail.
MAFIA: Eating could probably be a hobby to some but to others eating is an option. When we have the chance to eat and enjoy it, ensure that we know the benefits or usage of the food that we eat or drink. That is why Allah gives us the BRAIN which consists of medula oblongata, cerebrum & cerebellum, to think with. :)
Program Semarak Amal (PSA) yang pertama anjuran kelab IKRAM Puncak Alam/ Perdana bersama Jabatan Kebajikan Masyarakat negeri Selangor. Doakan kejayaan kami ya?